I don't like spending a lot of money much to my husband's dismay. And although we don't agree on many things in regard to finance, he did teach something valuable that I try to adhere to for the sake of my family. When you spend money, look more at what joy it will bring as opposed to how it is breaking your bank account. Within reason of course. You don't want spoiled kids or a house full of stuff that will not bring you joy in a few months, a la Marie Kondo. I mean we c